Dear Followers;- Real Talk

Dear followers, 

First i would like to thank everyone who’s stuck by my blog highs and lows and all the subscribers i have I’m so grateful for each and everyone of you.
This is a post with some real talk for you all and a little whats been going on.

So i started this blog about 1.5-2years ago and i started it with the intention of just expressing my love thoughts and hauls all to do with beauty, then as time went on i discovered some other blogging ideas that i found that i enjoyed doing and you enjoyed reading and they are more ‘fashion and lifestyle’ posts i would say so outfits of the day’s what I’ve been up to ect.. and i never thought i would have the confidence to do these posts but i have had and its all thanks to your amazing support.

Then 8months ago my personal life changed and my world was turned upside down with the passing of my father, and its taken such a toll on my life which has affected by posts, i used to upload so regularly now the last few months i go through a stage where I’m really motivated and feeing good then the next week I’m struggling and i suppose this is all apart of grieving for someone so special in life.
I felt the quality of my posts were so dreadfully poor I’ve actually gone back now and removed some if i could i would remove most of them.

I want to get back to having a positive blog space and producing something I’m proud of, I’ve always loved my blog and its an adventure my dad loved to hear about as he was a IT geek.

So what I’m going to do is over the next week really give my blog a revamp and update everything that needs to be done and start planning some posts like i used to and channel all my energy back into my blog, I’m currently out of work so i find myself procrastinating a lot but i want to achieve more positives and really re find myself and me and apart of me is this little space of the internet.

Im going to do more varied blogs i used to always think oh no thats going to be good enough or oh thats clique all bloggers do or say that but from experience reading some of blogs have helped me and if i can help anyone in any way i can.

Bare with me i am back and more active, and I’m so thankful for all the views and likes i continued to receive when i went MIA.

I want to do a massive give away to all my followers so keep a look out.

 

love to you all

aletheatrnt 

x

 

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Maintaining The Best Relationship

Whilst its the best feeling having a relationship it can become so easily for it all to go wrong. So here are my best tips on maintaining a relationship. Ive been with my current partner for 5years, so i have a fair idea of how to keep things healthy.

Things to remember;

  • ‘Distance makes the heart grow founder’  This is one i swear by, i dont mean that you have to move ten miles away but its all about having your own time to make you miss the other person and to keep there cute habits from becoming annoying. Weather its working separate jobs or going out in different friend groups every so often. You can even be in the same house and have your own time for example you can take yourself off to pamper yourself and do your own thing whilst your partner is in a separate part of the house. As much as you may want its not healthy spending every second of your day together.
  • Talk – Communication is key in any friendship or relationship. Be real talk about your thoughts your woes, this can also make your bond even stronger.
  • Keep a designated night to go all out – Have a date night once a week where you can glam up and go out just like when you used to date. This works best for couples that live together!
  • Comprimise – For any relationship to work there needs to be a level of give and take. For instance weather it comes down to what to have for dinner or what to watch on tv. Sometimes you have to meet in the middle.
  • Don’t try to change your partner – Theres no person that is perfect everyone has there flaws. Your partner you should love for there flaws n’ all!
  • Complements – Keep the relationship positive, say them soppy things give them complements.
  • Give what you expect to get – You can’t be not giving your partner a second of your time and expect a massive gift in return. Your equal and both deserve what makes each other happy.

 

*these are only opinions, some of these might work for you and your relationship

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